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What about the best men?
Women must see
The year-old marriage between Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan caused great repercussions in society because of the age difference of 54 years.
I think that on similar issues, people used to think and judge too much from the man ‘s point of view, but ignored the inquiry from the woman ‘s point of view-why these women do not seem to fit with themselves in traditional termsLined men get married?
The answer is because these men have attracted them. In their eyes, these men are the finest and best men!
Of course, men like Nobel Prize winner Yang Zhenning and world media king Murdoch are rare, and there are too few in the world after all.
They live in a unique society different from ordinary people, and cannot be easily reached by ordinary people.
So, in our ordinary lives, what kind of man can be regarded as the best man?
I remember reading a French novel as a child.
It is about a middle-aged man with a dog, who often appears on the beaches of some famous tourist attractions.
This attracted the women who came here on vacation to speculate on the life of the middle-aged man.
As a result, the mysterious person became the best man on the beach.
After reading it, I had no idea but just felt that the French women were nervous.
When I was an adult, I heard the “sacrifice” of my girlfriends around me and earnestly received the “Boudoir Sutra” sincerely. Then I realized that in the world of our ordinary people, “Modern Needy Men” recognized by many womenIt is similar to the man in that novel-“about forty years old, divorced, no children, and a dog.”
The reason for this is as follows: Forty-year-old men have reached a forty-year-old, and their careers have generally been relatively stable, and they also have a certain economic foundation.
Forty-year-old men have already had enough social experience and mature.
Although starting a business with someone you love is also a happiness for some women, for most women, a stable career, basic economic foundation, rich social experience and maturity are more worthy of dependence.
On the surface, women no matter how independent they are, there are many “strong women”, but there is a “little woman” side deep inside, and they all hope that a man can bear it.
This kind of reliability is not necessarily completely material, but more often spiritual and emotional.
Forty-year-old men tend to make “little women” feel more practical, more reliable, and more willing to entrust their “lifetime”-even if it is not a lifetime of white-headedness-to him.
Divorced First of all, most divorced men have already had family life experience.
So after you marry him, you no longer need to teach him family chores such as salt and vinegar.
If you are lucky, he will do the laundry for you, and the “quality of service” is definitely higher than the housekeeping or nanny!
Of course, because he has learned the lessons of marriage failure, in order to avoid “repeated repetition”, he will carefully care for the relationship between the two.
You just make a “little sex”, commit a “menstrual mania” or something, he will not care about you too much, he will always tolerate you generously.
This is a superfluous woman, a privilege to expect from her own man.
If there is no child, if the man remarries you with the child born to his ex-wife, you must be the child’s stepmother.
In the current economy and society, corporate mergers and reorganization of resources have become familiar fashion terms.
In terms of marriage and family, although “family reorganization” cannot be described as a new fashion, the way this family module is constructed has no longer had the kind of profound psychological rebound in the past.
In this way, I still can’t survive the stepmother.
No matter how hard you try to “move affection, understand reason,” but still cannot keep up with the times.
The vicious shadow of the queen mother always lingers.
Perhaps Western fairy tales such as “Snow White” in childhood were seen too much, and Chinese folkloric tunes such as “Little Cabbage” were heard too much as a teenager, and the “poisoning” was too deep to extricate themselves.
Here I boldly use my little man’s heart to spend the belly of the world’s women and place the world’s women, like me, very few people are willing to give others as stepmothers.
Whether a dog has a pet is actually a litmus test for a single man. You must not underestimate this.
First of all, a man can carefully breed pets, showing that he is caring; that he is not too self, and in his life, he can tolerate others.
First, explain his sense of responsibility.
No matter what this man does, no matter where he goes, there must always be a thought in his heart that he can’t get rid of, always taking into account the pet he is raising.This concern and concern is a sense of responsibility, a basic quality that a woman asks a man to deserve.
Finally, raising a pet also shows that the man is not autistic, does not like loneliness, and hopes to have a companion.
If you want to work hard for such a man and get him accounted, I believe your efforts will not be unresponsive.
So why do you have to keep a dog instead of any other pet?
Cat breeding is a bit embarrassing because cat breeding is too fat.
Only dogs seem to be more suitable for men.
These standards mentioned above sound a bit ruthless reality or utilitarian.
But I believe that the women who can recognize these standards cannot be romantic little girls, but mature women who have experienced the vicissitudes of the emotions and are more practical.
These standards may be based on their countless lessons of failed romantic pursuits.
Therefore, whether these standards are correct or not, they have at least some empirical value.
In fact, the answer to what is called “the best man” must be richness and diversity.
Have you ever seriously thought that the “need man” in your own mind is a kind of child?
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